I love the wild and the weird. I am old and I am queer. I relish erotic embodiment in the wake of trauma – despite the constant punishing messaging of the dominant culture about how we are supposed to do sex (which no one does). I teach people how to share erotic touch, as a joyful, soulful livelihood, and a way of life that nurtures intimacy and grows community. I am an outlaw who cherishes other outlaws. If you’ve been told you don’t belong, or had to hide to belong, or thought you could never belong – Welcome!  We can weave belonging. Sacred intimacy and sacred medicines can resource us.