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I have retired from offering somatic sex education sessions. I am spending more time enjoying the hummingbirds (as in the picture above). I am also writing, reading, developing new teachings and learnings, playing with my dog, and savouring the deep delight of friendships and community. I am actively engaged in inquiry about the intersections of intimacy, psychedelics and social justice. I post regularly on Facebook, where you can follow me to connect with new ideas and resources. The best way to send me a message is by using the contact form below.

I have many free and low cost teachings that I joyfully share online and in my books. I have researched and written on the science of sexological bodywork, neurobiology and sexual healing, trauma, orgasm coaching, ethics for outlaws and many other topics. I offer courses online through the Erospirit Intimacy Institute – including two free programs.

I have retired from my position as faculty at the Institute for the Study of Somatic Sex Education, but many of my teachings are available there, and I continue to participate in the school in the weekly Community of Practice. The professional training offered at the Institute is for people who want to learn to support clients and friends in healing sexual trauma, accessing expanded pleasure, and encouraging neuroplastic change.  The workshops and teachings always honor the gender galaxy, explore the intersection of sex and spirit, and create erotic community. People of all gender identities, sexual orientations, body shapes and ancestries are welcomed and celebrated.

People who want to work with a somatic sex educator can find wonderful colleagues and students through the Somatic Sex Educators Association.

Read more in this Interview with Caffyn

I welcome letters from folks who resonate ​with my work. Please use this Contact Form